The 24-year-old Gossip Girl star said that she values the opinions of her nearest and dearest more than anyone else, and so she likes to know what they think.
She told Nylon magazine, 'I like to be judged by my family and friends because they know me.
'If they think I'm being an a**hole I'd like them to tell me, but if I'm fat or something I'm like, 'Well, so? OK? Great!'
'It doesn't even matter, it's like, 'What if I am fat? Does it matter?'… I'm a grown woman and sometimes I might be a little fat, you know! Am I alone there? Not really.'