Jessie J says love should be "at the core" of everything people do.
The British singer has dated both men and women, but dislikes being labelled as bisexual. She isn't ashamed of her life choices but doesn't understand why people are interested in her private life.
"It's one of those things where they labelled me. Sexuality shouldn't define anyone. It doesn't define me," she told the latest edition of UK magazine Elle.
"Love should be at the core of what you do. I'm only interested in finding love now."
The 24-year-old singer has enjoyed success with singles such as Do It Like a Dude. Although she loves being a pop star, Jessie knows she'll want something more when she gets older.
She is looking forward to finding the perfect person to settle down with.
"I definitely want to get married and have kids and it's just about making sure that the person who I meet and that I do that with is right for me," she said.
The constant speculation about her private life is something Jessie will never get used to. She can't imagine being in Britain's Duchess of Cambridge's position, admitting she would hate to be subjected to that level of scrutiny.
"After [Queen Elizabeth II's] jubilee concert [earlier this year], there was an after-party… Will was there. And Kate. I feel so sorry sometimes for Kate. The pressure she's under," she mused.